The perfect photo to attract women
Last Update : 31 May 2018
Image is one of, if not the most, important things in casual dating. No string attached affairs are mainly based on physical attraction, so if you want to approach a naughty woman on a dating site or get noticed by Aussie attractive ladies, then you should consider which ones of your countless photos will win them over.
The pictures you upload to your profile can mark the difference between being the man a hot girl chooses to have a hook-up with or being just another nameless guy with average photos in a dating website.
Your goal is to grab females’ attention so they do not click “next”, so make sure to include your most astonishing pictures, unless your idea is to sextext strangers anonymously. In such case, the best is to hide your face (or blur it), and any personal marks than can be used to easily identify you.
But what makes the perfect image? What kind of photos attract most women on casual dating sites?
The first picture is your presentation card
The photo that appears first on your profile should be the one that charms women instantly! The best is to upload a high quality face picture where you appear smiling, and with a seductive gaze. The idea is to send a message that you are positive, and nice, but also naughty guy.
If you are not sure about what is your most attractive picture, you can always ask a female friend to make sure you select THE ONE!
Solo pictures
In a classic dating site, it may be OK to add photos where you appear socializing: images where you appear for example having some beers with friends, playing football with your work colleagues or in a concert with your brother, so the girls know what a friendly, and lovely guy you are, but in casual websites you have to ‘sell yourself’ in a different way.
If your objective is to attract a sexy woman online, get her number, set a casual date as soon as possible, and let the action begin, then the best is to play solo. If you for example include photos where you appear with more people, the chances of her responding your message will fall because, at a first look, she will not know exactly which of them is you, if it is a group of men, and instead of spending time finding out, she probably would prefer to moving to the next profile.
Remember: women like to know who they are about to hook up with, so be clear showing who you really are!
If in your pictures you also appear accompanied by other women, and having an affectionate attitude towards them, your online casual girl will not even bother to read your profile or answer your messages.
You may be a playboy who loves to sleep with as many women as possible, and in your profile you probably have described yourself in that way, but it does not mean that the girl in the dating site, in spite she may not look for something serious, necessarily likes to see you as the typical skirt chaser. Send a message that says that you are a Casanova, not a womanizer.
Attitude matters
One of the disadvantages (although, sometimes it can be a positive thing) of meeting people online is that you cannot physically communicate with each other, there is no human touch, so you have to figure it out what kind of personality has the person you are talking to by having a look at the description, the pictures or videos she uploads in her profile.
Photos can be really useful to portray the real you, and indirectly show what things you are into.
Having a positive attitude while casually dating is important. You would need to be open, and prepare yourself to have fun, and enjoy getting physical without expecting to have a further commitment with the other person.
Add photos that show that attitude! The way you pose can be decisive. For the full body photos, the best is to pose relaxed, and use the ones that irradiate charm, and sex appeal.
It is preferable to avoid photos where you appear shirtless or completely naked. Think that all users, any of them, can have a look at them. Plus, these profiles barely receive any visits.
Depending on the situation, and if both of you agree, you can send sexy pictures to each other, but do not give them away that soon. Create a situation where both of you crave for it!
‘Action shots’ are chick magnets
Most women love guys who are very passionate, and adventurous. When online dating you would have to subtly ‘convince’ women that you are not just a nice guy who loves to have fun, but also that you are going to be their best lover, and the way to do so is by using photos where you appear with a rebellious attitude, engaged in original activities (riding a motorcycle, playing the guitar, surfing…) or doing something daring.
If you portray an image that says: “Hey, I am a sexy adventurer, and I will take you to a world where you can explore all your fantasies”, it would help you to increase your chances to get a real date, and seal the deal with that hot girl!