Learn to flirt with attractive women on a live chat
Last Update : 31 May 2018
Seducing a female online is an art. Many guys find that approaching a naughty woman on a dating site can be one of the hardest parts of casual dating due to the high number of competitors they have to deal with.
Women, the good-looking ones in particular, tend to receive dozens of requests, and messages from men like you who also try their best to chat them up, but what can you do to be the lucky one that ends up meeting in person that hot girl that has caught your attention, and, of course, getting intimate with her?
Seduce women with words
Your best shot is to seduce her with words. The great thing about online dating sites is that you can meet more attractive girls than in real life. The no so great thing is that there is hardly space for physical interaction (unless you go for virtual sex, and use some remote controlled toys), so you basically have to win her with your conversation skills.
Many casual dating websites give you the option to send other users some personal questions about their sexual habits, and preferences. This could be a good way to know if a woman in particular is the perfect one to play the leading role in your dirty fantasies or that you are the right men for hers.
However, the best way to know each other a bit more is through the live chat.
Breaking the ice with questions about her sex tastes can be a little be risky – although they can be of good use for when the conversation has gone to the sex territory -, so instead of start talking that aggressively, it could be a nice idea to begin with something you have seen in her profile.
When using a casual dating website, you would need to take your time to read the information in her profile, from start to end, in order to know some bits, and bobs about the girl you are talking to, and well, you are about to conquer.
Choose the appropriate tone, and dynamic
The conversation you can have with a woman in a casual dating website clearly is not the same as the one in a classic site.
The objective of the people using these casual platforms is to find potential partners who they can share a physical encounter, online and/or offline, without the responsibility of having a further compromise.
Many people love sexting -exchange dirty messages- with strangers, but keep in mind that not all women are up for it!
If this is the case, just keep a lighted-hearted conversation with her, and do not pressure her! Getting intimate takes some time.
If she is into having a dirty chat, before bringing out the erotic author in you, consider how to build sexual tension gradually.
You cannot introduce yourself by sending a sextext as a first message to a girl you have met online because, in spite the purpose of each of you may be to meet singles in your area to get laid, catching her off guard can leave you in a position where you can lose all the chances to meet her offline.
The first thing you would need to do is to think about setting the appropriate tone for the conversation. Humour can always be used as an excuse to break the ice, but do not depend too much on it. The idea is to entice her gradually with your smooth talk.
There are several ways to lead a casual conversation to sex. Subtle flirting is the way to go! The best trick is to tease her, and depending on how the chat goes, in an innocent, and funny tone insinuate that she is the one who wants to take advantage of you.
You can also, once in a while, change the meaning of some words or sentences to make it sound sexual, but do it playfully, do not be rude or vulgar.
Keep in mind that different women want different things, so do not be harsh on yourself if you say something that she really is not into. In most cases you barely would know the girl you are sexting with, so it could happen that you say something that can turn you on, but not her, so if she is uncomfortable with something in particular that you said, just apologize, bring up another subject, and keep the conversation flowing.
If you learn how to lead a dirty conversation with a hot girl in a casual dating live chat, then it will be easier for you to seduce her to get in bed with you!