A quick guide to a summer fling

Last Update : 11 July 2018 by Lily

summer fling

The hottest season of the year has arrived, and that means that it is the perfect time for snagging a summer fling!

It is the time to wear dresses that reveal more skin, go outside to enjoy the warm weather, and get flirty with attractive strangers while playing volleyball on the beach!

A lot of singles take the opportunity that people are more approachable during this time of the year, to make their summer even hotter by initiating a casual romance.

What things do you need to consider for a casual summer affair?

A summer fling should be 0 drama. This means that your love/sex story has an expiration date.

The first thing you would need to consider is to find someone who agrees to get involved in a non-serious relationship.

This does not necessarily mean to only stick to the sex part, but at least make sure that you both are on the same boat: you want to have fun, and enjoy each other’s company with not further commitments.

Knowing that your affair will end at some point before the fall comes, it will make your romance more special. You will take the most of your time together!

One of the greatest aspects of summer flings is that there is no need to make all your plans taking into account your temporary match.

You do not need to justify yourself if you want to get affectionate with other singles if this has been agreed.

The best is to put the cards upon the table at the beginning of your affair to avoid hurting the other’s feelings!

Where can you find your next summer fling?

Anywhere! Even if you are travelling, thanks to dating apps for casual encounters, you can easily find a sexy single nearby searching for someone just like you to hook-up.

So, where you are on vacations, make sure to have your mobile phone at a hand to do some swiping!

Adopting a flirting mode is a must! If you are in an open space like the beach or a park, and see a group of people of your age, do not hesitate to convince your friends to approach to them, and get to know each other.

If you see there is chemistry with one of them, make sure to ask him/her to go away from the group for a while to get to know each other well.

Take the opportunity to get flirtatious, and if it is corresponded, be honest as tell that you are interested, but that you are looking for something casual.

Sex can occur at any time, so wear protection!

There are not many rules when it comes to summer casual dating, but one of the must norms is to wear protection!

A summer fling is about spontaneity, and freedom to get in bed whenever you want, and with whoever you want to, so the best to avoid getting an STD or any other unpleasant surprises is to use protection.

The last piece of advice would be: enjoy yourself, and make sure you summer fling is a memorable one!

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